This photo was taken years ago, and the pose was directed at the photographer, my husband, and it sent him into gales of laughter. Since then it has taken on a new meaning to me, now that I find myself alone with days to fill. Dogs and donuts, that about sums it up, and it’s okay. I’m Sue, living on my own for the first time in my 68 years, ‘calling the shots for myself for the first time’, as my daughter commented. Though the dogs and the part time job in the bakery do give structure to the days.