The vet tech had an explanation for it. “It” being the fact that the dog I had brought in, the one that had required me to hoist her back end up off the floor every time she wanted to get up for the last 48 hours, was repeatedly getting herself up off the tile floor at the vet’s office yesterday. It was because even though there were no other dogs there to witness her struggles, she still could smell them, and no dog wants to let herself be seen as the weakest one in the pack, so the adrenaline rush she was having was serving as a pain reliever. Or so they said. I had told myself that the thing I didn’t want to do was to take her in and spend a whole lot of money, knowing what the outcome was really going to be in the not so distant future, and knowing that my Zoe was going to suffer while I fought to justify my decision of what to do. But in the vet’s office she looked like a different dog from the one I’d had at home. Needing help getting up was relatively new, and while she had needed me to help her for a day or two recently, she had seemed to recover and I told myself that she had strained something and it was all better. And the confusion in her face when she couldn’t get herself up was heartbreaking. But she seemed to be in not so dire of a condition while we were there, so it was pain meds, joint supplements, and see her in two weeks.
Except once I got her home she was trying to not use her right back leg at all. That she was in distress was obvious. I brought the water bowl to her and she drank, but she wouldn’t eat. She cried and wanted to get up, so I’d hoist her up, and then she’d stand there not knowing what she wanted to do next. I thought about how I’d learned to help my mother, and then my husband, when they couldn’t get out of a chair. I’d lean in and hug them to me, and use leverage to just lift them up. It worked perfectly. Not possible with Zoe, and I was already feeling the strain in my back from lifting her.
I’m writing this at 4 AM while I listen to Zoe’s breathing. She is finally asleep. We have been up for hours, she was crying, it actually sounded like a low growl, and nothing I could do for her except sit with her and pet her seemed to help. Sweet, easy-going Ozzie was determined to put himself between Zoe and me, so I had to put him in the bedroom before he hurt her, or me. It was the pleading in her eyes that got to me. Just like when it’s been raining for hours and the dogs want to go out, and they look at me wondering why I’m letting it rain when they know that I’m in charge of the world and I could stop it if I wanted to. Zoe’s eyes tell me that she is pleading with me to make it stop, not the rain, but the pain…